Happy Birthday to Me :)
Hello friends,
~HAPPY ARIES SEASO! AS THE FIRST SIGN IN THE ZODIAC, HERE IS TO NEW BEGINNINGS~
Today is my birthday :)! I am so grateful to be celebrating another full year around the sun. I am thankful the universe has granted me health, community, and what seems like endless prospects. I am extremely privileged to be where I am in life. I know this moment–being a grad student at Stan State–will, in no time, seem like such a long time ago. That is nerve wrecking, and another reason I take in everything around me with nothing but optimism and appreciation.
I’ve never been big on birthdays, at least not my own. I’m sure many of us can attest to feeling guilty for putting ourselves in even the slightest of spotlights and instead choose to make space for others instead of taking any up for ourselves. While it is great to be humble, I am recognizing there is difference between being humble and being self-less. It’s 2020 and with everything happening around the state and country, we should be celebrating ourselves more than ever!
This birthday, I am celebrating embracing my capabilities and interests in entering academia. As a first generation student, I am one of the “lucky ones” and feel it is my duty to enter academic spaces with nothing but confidence in order to help others do the same later. Besides, it would be very un-Aries of me to do otherwise! As an Aries, I am ruled by Mars, whose astrological symbolism represents competitive, warrior-like energy.
Only a few months ago I visited my friends at my undergrad institution (who are still undergrads) and was told I am one of the ones who’s “made it,” which was something I had yet to be told so bluntly. Since then, I refuse to deny it. I am making it through a system that can be difficult to navigate when you’re the first in your immediate and extended family to enter. I am making it through a system that doesn’t always offer a short-cut but instead what seems like numerous obstacles. I am making it through a system that truly tests me and my ability to deal with bureaucratic guidelines. Amidst all of these barriers and limitations, am making it, and for all these reasons and more, I celebrate myself and any/all first generation students navigating the education pipeline.
This year I am celebrating myself during a time of immense political and economic uncertainty. These are difficult times for us all but I know that a year from now I will be be celebrating having made it through them in every way possible. I will be celebrating my growth then. I will also be celebrating my growth to come, as I am doing now.
Happy birthday to me! I may still not be permitted to rent a car without extra fees, but I am still celebrating myself and all the other Aries of the globe. Us fire signs may not be having the BEST fire season this year, but we’re still the fun sign (if I do say so myself).